You only think yo are making your wife fantasize your fantacy. That is not what she is thinking I think she is loosing all respect for you and wondering if you want to cheat or if you really love her. What a real piece of crap yo are to need to control even her fantasies I think she needs to dump you.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.