My 12 year old son is crying and he wants to come home from his fathers but?

My 12 year old son is crying and he wants to come home from his fathers but ... court is tomorrow and I cant afford to go and I'm losing all my rights. They are over 500 miles away... he's talking about running away... what they hell can I do? I only want my kids to be happy... obviously my youngest son isn't happy.

THeir father is a jackass, he isn't a good father type figure and there is nothing I can do about it. What am I supposed to tell my kids? All I feel like doing is laying down and dying... I know the crap about "don't do that...." but it hurts like hell and I don't know how to deal with all of this pain.

UPDATE::: while I was on the phone with my son his father came home and beat the crap out of him while I was on the phone. Myself, my husband and my neighbor all heard it happening then the line went dead. I have the cops doing a well being check on him right now.

I'm waiting for a call back from the cops... this is unbeilable pain... either I'll get my youngest son back or I'll never hear from him again. What the heck can I do in this situation? Asked by doodle12 40 months ago Similar questions: 12 year son crying home fathers Family > Parenting.

Similar questions: 12 year son crying home fathers.

He needs to talk to the judge Your son needs to talk to the judge in this case. He is old enough the judge should listen to him. Also look into getting him a CASA agent to help protect his rights.As far as the beating you need to call Child Social Services and report that ASAP.

You can also talk to social services and they should be able to give you info on getting him a CASA or court appointed "worker/agent" to help protect his rights and his needs. As often they are overlooked and if a parent requests it it is normally then done. Also when you talk to him next, you need to have him call the police the next time his dad beats him.

He needs to tell teh police that his dad just beat him AGAIN and he wants to get help and not keep getting hurt. If they don't do anything then he needs to call the state troopers/sheriffs office and report it to them also and also tell a teacher at school. If he has any bruises from it he needs to go tell a teacher or counsler at school.

Under the law they have to report it and that will protect him! Good Luck and I hope it works out for him. I have 5 boys, all of which I have adopted from fostercare so I have seen everything.

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You did right to call the police. There will be a child's advocate in court if you request it. There may be one anyway.

Make all the phone calls you can RIGHT NOW to secure that, explain your situation, and explain that your son wants to come home to Mom. Tell them what just happened. You waited until awfully late in the game to ask for help, but if it were my son, I would have dropped everything and driven to wherever my child was and where the court hearing is to take place.At least you can make calls.

Do it now, fast.

I think there is a posibility of Child abuse from the father going on : Just pray the cops got to you'r sons & they are o.k. I hope you get you sons back soon sorry I can't help more. Sources: my opinion .

That breaks my heart... I know what home violence can be like.. it changes people. See if you can find a friend to come over to see you and help support you. Take witnesses to court.

Show the court you are a decent person. Pray to God for help. Ask many people to pray.

Love you... Wendy .

OUR CHILDREN ARE OUR LIFE. FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE. GET YOUR SON.

OUR CHILDREN ARE OUR LIFE. FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE. GET YOUR SON.

Try to do all the best to get your kids. Seek help from an organization that helps women and children They will give you good advice, and help you through it. But never bad-mouth the father in front of the children Do not lose the respect Just show them and prove them and make them feel the love you have for your Kids.PRAY.

PRAY. PRAY. Seek help and advise also from your church, or the pastor.

Pray to seek wisdom, strength and courage Do not let anybody hurt your children. This is abuse. Child abuse.

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I am looking for software for my 12 year old son who needs additional help in his reading, spelling and writing skills.

My 16 year old son slept at a friends. Parents home asleep. Beer drinking game.My son passed out.

Can I sue.

He wants to be on it but our son is now 7 years old.

O.k. My son have fathers last name but we are unmarried...I wanna know hu have legally wright on child custody....

I lost my son because the judge said I was jealous of fathers new wife,i'm already appealing it?help.

My son of 14 leaves his fathers at 6.45am to get the train to school in morn and gets home at 7pm in eve is that ok.

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