He's sending you mixed messages because he knows that you like him. Sometimes its an exciting feeling when someone likes you, even if you're not interested in them that way. He probably doesn't want to give it up and I'll bet he wants your feelings towards him to intensify.
You say he's your best friend but he doesn't have your best interest in mind when it comes to this situation. I hope you have other friends to lean on.
I would say it sounds like some mixed signals...and it totally sucks! I was always the type of girl who got along with boys and rarely hung out with the girls. I crushed on all of them at one point...It's hard to suggest the best thing to do...What I would always do..to see what the guys would say is think of a girl that we both knew, a classmate or coworker who is similar to how I was.
Same kind of attitude, interests and so on. I would ask them what they thought of her...it didn't always work out how I wanted it to but I got answers that kind of gave me an idea if I would even stand a chance with them. Sometimes I would jokingly ask while we laughed about it "so I'm the perfect fit right?"
Sometimes we would laugh harder, but sometimes they would say yeah I was...BINGO! I got my answer...when they would say yeah I would say "really? " and the conversation would answer my question, if I even had a chance.
Don't know if it's a suggestion you would be willing to try...But I always managed to get my answer. Hope that's not too jumbled and good luck!
I’ve been in love with my best friend for over a year now. He got his girlfriend pregnant and they’ve decided to keep the baby. At this point it’s completely inappropriate to tell him the way I feel about him.
In addition, I feel really guilty having these feelings for him considering his situation. Because of the stress of the baby, he’s been fighting with his girl. He talks to me about her sometimes, it seems that all the qualities she lacks I have.
It’s bad because thinking like this gives me false hope. I want to stop being in love with him; I want to stop thinking that things will change and one day we’ll be together. I know its unhealthy to think this way, especially considering the circumstances, but I can’t get over him.
Once the baby arrives and I have to see him with his family, I don’t know how I’m going to live with myself. I also don’t want to cause problems between me and his girlfriend but I’m afraid even our friendship already has. He means a lot to me and I know I mean a lot to him, but I need to get over him.
I feel the best solution for both of us would be to cut him out of my life, but I don’t want to cut him out of my life, he’s my best friend. What can I do? This situation has been causing me great stress and sadness.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.