My bf said he needs time and space after us fighting is that good he needs space?

It could be. Look at it like this, his statement is somewhat revealing that he needs time to think about his own emotions and involvement or he needs room to decide how he feels about you. Either way, there is a message there for you that says he may not have the same feelings for you that you do for him.

Relationship-wise, that's not good. At the same time, you get the opportunity to head in a different direction before investing any greater emotion on a relationship that may be doomed anyway. It takes two to tango so don't try playing golf with a dead man.

Good Luck!

If you've been fighting and he's asked you for some space, it probably means he needs to cool down and sort out his feelings. You need to try to give him the space he's asked for and stop texting him to check on how he is feeling otherwise it could lead to another fight. Even though this might seem unfair, if he loves you and wants to be with you, he'll get in touch with you to try and work things out.

Sometimes we need to give the person we love space and we also need to listen more intently when they are speaking. Regardless if the other person is wrong or right we need to know when to also be still eliminating an argument, if both people believe they are constantly correct and each of you are trying to prove you point then things many times do not get resolved and always escalate. Give him space but also sit down and talk about your indifferences.

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It is probably not a good thing, people I know that are happiest with their relationships want to be with eachother as much as possible, so when men want to start taking time apart I believe he wants time to think about if he wants the relationship at all. But with men honestly you never really know.

Neeeding space is niether good nor bad it just means he needs time to regroup and asses the situation give him the space he needs and it will work itself out good luck.

We have two opposing desires in life: intimacy and autonomy. In most cases, one of you has a stronger drive for intimacy or autonomy. Negotiating these gets tough, because hen the person who prefers autonomy wants time alone, the person who prefers intimacy feels threatened, and begins to cling.

The other way 'round: when the person who prefers intimacy moves in, the one who prefers autonomy begins to feel 'controlled' or smothered'.

Maybe you are not compatible with each other. But if you really love each other as my impressions would suggest, look for ways where you could be in a better perspective. Love conquers all, anyway.

On the other hand, it's quite good that you are frequently at war so that when you already settle down you are already used to it. Quarreling would just be an ordinary affair to you when you are already living under one roof. It could be a vehicle for your happiness once it is settled.

Sometimes, quarreling is good. Take it from me. I have been through with these things.

I am already 63 years old. May God bless you. Seek guidance from above always.

Don't forget to pray. Pray for your bf that he may be enlightened.

If you two fight all the time it can't be love. Learn from the experience and find someone else who is more compatible to you.

Remember that both of you are young. Each of you is still growing and learning. The older you get the more you try to assert yourself and your individuality.

That's part of growing up and becoming mature adults. So you are learning how to give and take, and share, and respect each other. It could be that each of you should date others as well as each other.

This will give you more experience in dating yet you can still be friends and date. And experiences in life are very important. Because only with experience in handling different situations can you fully grow as an individual.

Before you can fully relate to someone else, you must first know who you are. You need to relax and not be so serious. Realize that you are young and you have a whole life ahead of you.

The sun will always rise in the morning.

I think that if tou guys constally argue about this relationship you should go seperate ways but if you truely love him then you guys should not throw it away. You didn't go out 4 6 months 4 nothin.

Yes it is good he needs a little space so he can think about things. Space can give you two a chance to think things over. People brake up if they get smotthered.

Just call his best friend and make a surprise for him n da moment you see his face don't talk about wht happened before..just tell him " I'm just here to tell you no more fights or arguments,I can't live a day without you in ma life. " with a sweet hug n a lil kiss ..this will work..and from your side baby try to calm urself down n don't argue alot, this won't let da relation healthy,take everything easy n smooth..I'm facin' da same problem these days,n actually yesterday he told me that he doesn' wan me anymore in his life coz I always do a big issue outta nothing..now I'm tryin' to prepare da surprise ,,,but ma prb is like urs in a part n da other part I'm facin' a big problem with him....but I'm tryin' to do whteva to ve him bak... stay well n strong n wish you luck strong gurl....

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