My fiance's future sister-in law didn't invite me to her wedding?

My fiance's future sister-in law didn't invite me to her wedding she made it clear that I was not welcome even though im going to be a part of the family. There have been many issues with this girl aboutnion her making up stories about me and claiming im attacking her etc. ( in my opion its jealousy towards me) my fiance's brother told him that if all of this stuff is over between us then I can come, the only problem is, everytime im around her she is always making little comments towards me and rolling her eyes.So do I go anyways or stay away Asked by erica1326 9 months ago Similar questions: fiance's future sister in law didn't invite wedding Lifestyle > Weddings.

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I wouldn't go. Let her have her day and you can see if "all this stuff is over" another time.

You are letting yourself get sucked into it. She can control/manipulate and make you look bad. Don't react to her.Be above it...like you are older.

Just smile and overcome evil with good...don't be overcome. Ask God to help you. Give her a wedding gift and don't say anything.

Don't defend youself...still getting sucked into the situation. Just pretend it is all positive and react in a positive way even if she tries to push your buttons.Be a model of how you want her to treat you.

Actually I happen to be older, she is 22 and im 27 which is why I have a hard time dealing with her high school actions. I have tried to act positive and ignore her negativity, but after a while enough is enough, and honestly I don't think I would want to waste my money on this little girl, if im not good enough to come to the wedding then she isnt worth me spending money on. Erica1326 9 months ago .

Bringing up god doesn't help anyone in this situation Shasha, fictional creatures unfortunately don't help anyone at all. But other than that you are right. Erica, this woman is a sociopath clearly, but sociopaths almost always prevail over people like you, manipulation and inducing emotional pain is what they do best.It would not be good at all for you to go there, but make it clear to your fiance that you WANT to be friends with her, but she is always looking for ways to hurt you and make you feel bad.

And unfortunately, people like this never change, EVER, sociopaths do NOT suddenly become friendly, they are only friendly to acquaintances, and people they want to deceive for their own purposes.

I agree she is a sociopath, and makes things extremely difficult for me. What sucks is, my fiance is in the wedding and she just made me look like a fool by not inviting me......but whatever, I guess I will just go make plans to do something else. What is also driving me nuts is that his mother keeps saying to me that I need to go etc.But I don't think she understands how bad the situation is, plus she thinks this little witch walks on water.

Now my other question is......that when I get married I plan on not inviting her to my wedding since she didn't invite me to hers and plus I don't think she could behave in an adult manner on my day, is this ok erica1326 9 months ago .

No, don't go and make it very plain to all family members that she is acting like a baby. Since you are to be in the family soon, I would try and convey to her that she doesn't have to like you, but for the sake of family gatherings, she should act civil (polite). Coming from a large family myself, having the group understand (and even take your side) is the best way to offset her antics.

Just stumbled on this. I hope this wedding hasn't occured yet because I can't stand seeing people give someone bad advice. You really need to go to this wedding!

This is not this little girl's wedding only... it is also your future new bro's wedding! This is going to be your new family and letting her create a divide between them and you by convincing you with her witchery to not go to a huge family event is just simply falling into her plans. You need to go because you are both going to be part of this family whether she and you like it or not and she can just suck a lemon for it!

Your future husband is going to be part of this wedding so you need to be there... plus your mother in law wants you to go... this should be enough to convince you. You don't want to look bad in front of the future in laws by looking like you had better things to do or that you are too immature to put things aside and be part of a family thing. Don't let her make you look like the bad guy.

Oh and who cares really what the hell she says about you...the family clearly still cares about you and more than likely doesn't believe it because they want you there anyways and still want you to be part of the family. In the end, the only one who's thoughts and words you should care about is your future hubby's. Besides, she isn't going to be a witch to you on her wedding day... and if she is then well good for her- she wants to spoil her own day!

It's not like you 2 are going to physically duke it out anyways... and if you do, let her hit you first so she can show her true colors to everyone:-) .

Thank you so much for taking the time to give me some advice...unfortunatley yes this wedding did already occur and no I did not go to it. Simply because she made it very very clear that I was NOT allowed to go, so what else was I supposed to do. I figured that nobody could really hold it against me since she was the one that said I was not allowed and not me saying there was no way in hell I was going.

Buuuut she did however end up doing me a favor since I have my own wedding coming up erica1326 3 months ago .

Everyone keeps telling me that, but I need a good reason why. I don't want to go, but feel obligated because my fiance is in it, and his whole familywill bethere also, but I have no idea how she is going to behave even though her fiance said if its all done then I can go erica1326 9 months ago .

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