My in-laws are Facebook friends with a girl my husband had an affair with, but we are not close to them. Should I worry?

I imagine that your husband is probably the person best situated to answer the question. Is hubbie still porking her, or is it over? Does he stray in other ways?

Can you discuss this with him? I'd say that if the situation is described accurately - there are always two sides - then you should be alert or concerned. Not worried, unless you have more evidence.

He doesn't want anything to do with her. It happened several years ago. But this chick just doesn't know the meaning of "NO".

She has tried several times to contact him. Even had the nerve to contact me and tell me that she missed his friendship. I just wondered if I was acting crazy or if I was reading more into it than that is really there.It hurt me that even though that we are not close.

I felt disrespected with them about friending her. My husband feels that I know that he loves me and that he wouldn't do it again. That I am just over reacting.

I know that he can't help what she does. Thanks! Anc 11 months ago .

Sounds to me like you have nothing to worry about. Don't let it affect you.

I am so sorry for your situation, but honestly, if it bothers you that his family keeps in contact with this witch, he should tell them how you feel, and ask them to cut all ties with her. You are not over reacting. Follow your instincts, they are there for a reason.

I know what I'm talking about, and I wish I had realized it sooner. Your husband should not make light of it. It hurts you.

How would he feel if this was happening to you, and an old love was trying to keep in touch with you? Good luck, take care of yourself, and don't think you are crazy.

Water under the bridge. My son had many girlfriends and as the relationships ended I found myself missing some of them. Such nice girls.

If I am a friend of theirs on Facebook has nothing to do with my son. He moved on. Maybe a current girlfriend might get jealous but if she is, it's her problem being so insecure.

I would never do anything to make someone uncomfortable. When my daughter got married in 2005 at least 4 ex's of my son came to the wedding (they continued to be friends) because they became my daughter's friends, too. They all behaved civilized.

I would be upset but try to remember, just because they may be in contact with her, it doesn't mean your husband is and that is all that really matters. I hope this helps! .

If so, I find it strange that they would support someone, even indirectly, who posed such a danger to their son's marriage. I can't help but see that as undermining to you. I would investigate the relationship they have with this woman and try to figure out why they remain friends with her.

It could also be something they feel they have no choice in; if she's as pushy and dense as you say (can't take no for an answer), they may be just pacifying her in lieu of a direct confrontation. If this is the case, just keep your own counsel. FB friends are not real friends---they're just like pictures you hang on your wall---so don't put much stock in this to begin with.

As for your hubby, I think you'll know if any danger is present and then, as Kar says, trust your instincts. If a woman who had had an affair with my husband called me later to tell me she missed his friendship, I'd let her know how I feel in no uncertain terms. Get this freak out of your life.

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