My wife has cheated twice, and I believe she's doing it again. I'm not sure how this marriage can be fixed.?

Wow, this was so familiar I got a chill reading it. My first wife was like that, always a pessimist when it came to our marriage. Every single argument, every .

. . Single .

. . One she would bring up divorce and threaten to move back with her parents.

I think she had borderline personality disorder or something. She also constantly accused me of cheating when I never did. The marriage didn't last and after seven years I wasn't sorry to see it go.

Sorry to say if only one of you is fighting to keep it going it won't work out. She wants to be a martyr. I say let her.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.