My wife insists our sex life is boring and stale?

What you do is cut back the things that you do for her proportionately to how she has cut you off from sex. Vacation , dinner out , shopping money , help with chores , car repairs , gifts ,,,,,,, whatever she values ,,,,, slash it to a level based upon her desire to meet your needs and wants. Make it crystal clear that your efforts directly correspond to hers.

Feel free to use the same excuses she does " I'm not in the mood " , I'm too tired " " Is that all you ever think about?" They can apply to just about anything she wants from you.

I think that couples should discuss before marriage their views on sex in marriage. There are also men who have low sex drives and ones that only romance in dating then romance ceases and a woman is left wanting. Love is supposed to be about giving and not receiving so you should be about fulfilling her desires and she yours.

People get mismatched because of their own selfishness.

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