I'm afraid you'll have to end it lad. Without trust you have nothing - and you clearly don't trust her. Look at it like this: when she moves, that's automatically going to put stress on the relationship.
Add what's transpired and the relationship's doomed. Everytime you call, you'll be wondering who's there with her, suddenly there's a lot of new friends and people in her life that you have no idea who they are. Next thing you know, she's going out with all these people (mostly guys) and doing things without you... Meanwhile, you're home waiting for her to call... No thank you sir!
Regardless, she went home with some strange guy instead of calling you. You'll never know for sure how things actually happened when they got home, but really, does it matter now? To me, in reading what you've shared, it sounds to me as if you've already made up your mind, friend.
Trust me. Just let it go before it hurts the both of you.
To have a relationship with her you have to believe her. If you can't, you need to get out now. Everyone has different rules and requirements for commitment and fidelity.
Hers was that until she knew things were going to work out so well with you she kept her options open. But the bottom line, whether she's faithful to you or not, if you have doubts it will never work. If you continue to find out about her little "indiscretions" then you have your answer.
But don't live a single day wondering. Make your decision and stick to it. If you move on, make the break clean and without malice and don't look back.
If you look back and feel regret you moved on too quickly. Good luck. Finding the right person to spend the rest of your life with is worth it.
If you really weren't thinking of her being a "forever" partner anyway, stay with her and enjoy the ride. Just use a condom and ask that if she finds herself in another "situation" that you need her to do the same.
Look, December linked to your question last month about the same thing. Here it is again. The question looks the same, until I scroll to see the follow-up posts.
You lie to her about the lunches. You've snooped on her phone. In snooping, you found that she sends naked photos to her ex, and he sends naked pictures of himself, with text that is invitations to sleep together.
You two are a mess. I don't think you should dump her because of the lunch thing, I think you should dump her because you two are not working out. The answer you marked as best last month is still the best answer.
All of it. Wait, wait, wait.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.