A single parent household is better than never giving the baby a chance. You do what you think is best for yourself and your body. If your boyfriend can't handle it, then he should've been more responsible on his end.
Besides, if he does actually break up with you for keeping the child (this could just be an empty threat at this point), then that opens you up to the opportunity of later finding someone who will support you and your child properly and care for you both as you both deserve.
Don't do it. It doesn't sound like that's what you want. I'm pro-choice.
That means I do not think anyone should be forced or co-erced into keeping the baby, putting the baby up for adoption, or getting an abortion. I also think no one should be forced against doing these things. Utimately, it doesn't matter if he resents you.
He's not even ready to get engaged to you. Who knows how long you'll be together. If you get an abortion and really don't want to, though, you will resent him and your relationship most likely won't last.
And, you'll most likely have regrets. You don't want to live with that. I'd think long and hard about it, but if you do not want an abortion, don't get one.
You're pregnant and now no choice is easy. There's difficult with every choice. I will tell you, things have a way of working out and I've never met a mother who regretted having their child.
I am not saying it doesn't happen, but I've heard so many who regretted giving their child up for adoption and so many regretting an abortion, when they were being co-erced into getting one. ETA: haven't read the rest of the responses, so this may have been said, but...you're already too far along for the "typical" abortion. You'll have to have a different procedure and besides everything else that goes with it, it costs a lot more money.
Maybe he'll respond to that.?
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