Should you believe your wife when she says she didn't have sex during a one year affair?

%REPLIES% Answer I know this sounds rough, but I have been in the same exact position as you. My wife (at that time) was having a two-year affair, and claimed "no sex. " I tried to be forgiving and REALLY tried to believe her.

Even with her denial of sex, she came to me with an ultimatum: "I'll stay with you if I can have him too. " At that point, I would have been no longer forgiving adultery, but ENABLING it. After our separation, she confessed to much outside sex.

BTW, she was also having sex with me at the same time as with him. Be aware Answer Affair means having sexual encounters. I will never believe you can see the opposite sex for a year and not have sex.

I have male friends that my husband is well aware of. I have known these men as friends for many years, but when I ask them over for dinner my husband is there and we have a great time (no, I'm not kinky! Ha, ha.) Often my male friend and husband go off and talk about fishing and I'm left out in the cold.

My husband has two female friends and they are lovely women and I will invite them over for dinner as well. I get even ... his friend and I will go shopping or just sit and talk about "girl stuff I don't know your situation at the present time, but if she has been faithful since you both discussed it I would "let sleeping dogs lie." If you continue to hound her this will just weaken your marriage If you feel your wife is still having an affair, then a marriage counseller is a chance, but more often than not, the hurt is there and always will be there Cheating can be done by phone or over the internet and there is usually no meeting or sexual encounter.

Some people that use the internet to entice each other into a relationship are usually afraid to confront the opposite sex on a one-to-one basis. Still, there are some relationships that have met over the internet, they have married and seem to be doing well Please, if your wife is over her affair, try and just let it go and enjoy your new found relationship. If you don't you will ruin what is left of your marriage Good luck Marcy Answer not unless you want to hang onto someone who is capable of lying to you about something so basic and important.

People who cheat are capable of seriously deep deception and are easily able to manipulate others so that they can get what THEY want, not what's best for you. If you have a gut feeling about whether she's cheating, you should go with it. Sad as it may be.

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