Unplanned pregnancy boyfriend wants abortion?

Don't do it AND dump your boyfriend. I know you want to keep your boyfriend but no good man would ever demand that his partner kill her own baby (that's what abortion is...you will still be the mother...just a mother of a dead baby!) because he doesn't want the natural consequences (paying for a baby) which is the result of an adult pleasure (sexual intercourse). Further, although you will be an amazing parent, you can't expect the same from a man who wants to kill (abort) his baby.

Did you even read what you wrote? He is sending you abortion numbers and says he is moving away and that although he will pay the child support, he won't be with you. So exactly what is going to make him an amazing parent?

I see nothing there. He is just another boy who wants adult pleasures but not adult consequences and he is doing his best to get you to kill your own child. Fortunately for the baby, you are too far along for an abortion.

This is what I want you to do. Take your soon-to-be-ex to a lawyer and have a document drawn up whereby he gives you permission to place the baby up for adoption and that he is abandoning all rights to the child. Then when the baby is born (don't let your soon-to-be-ex) be present at the child's birth...he deserves no such privilege...place the baby up for adoption and then kick your boyfriend to the curb!

Good luck and God bless. Addendum: If perchance you aren't too far along for an abortion, please do not kill your baby. Your baby only has you to protect him/her and your child wants to live even though one of his parents wants him dead!

You need to tell ou boyfriend that he needs to step up t the plate and be there for you and the baby. You shoud NEVER ever feel presured to do anything exspeically an abortion. If your boyfriend isn't willing to be there for you is this not showing his true colors?

I think you should keep the baby and let your boyfriend decide what he wants to do, even if it hurts to choose between one or the other. He should not be making you choose, but I don't believe you should have an abortion or give the baby up. I'm not sure how much I helped but I put in my 2 cents and I suppose thats all I can do for you.

I wish you the best of luck.

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