We knew each other before we married others. We are brother and sister in law. We love each other?

We knew each other before we married others. We are brother and sister in law. We love each other.

We don't want to get together since there are neices and nephews. I truly want the best for each of us, which I believe is living honestly toward each other in this and NOT acting on this. Our spouses don't know about our true feelings toward each other.

Is it possible in this to love each other and still keep our families intact since we are in laws and after over two decades have not acted upon this love?T.G. Asked by T.G. 40 months ago Similar Questions: knew married brother sister law love Recent Questions About: knew married brother sister law love Lifestyle > Relationships.

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John Wesley had problems loving the woman he was married to, also. But he remained true to his vows and to his God, which is why God used him. Know that God blesses obedience to His word and God judges disobedience.

This might be motivation enough for both or you, that there will be consequences. Keeping your promises models to your children the importance of keeping a promise even when one doesn't want to. Conversely, breaking a promise tells the children that marriage isn't that important, and one can expect to see, in about 20 years, a series of unhappy relationships amongst all of one's children.

"When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay" (Ecclesiastes 5:4-5).

If you truly love each other, respect your families and stay friends. "Sometimes the more you think about something, the more important it becomes. " I agree totally with post 6.

I ruined my first marriage over the same thing years ago. Not only does the pain effect others, it did a bad job on my children as well. There are wounds now that will never heal, and there is nothing I can do to make up for it.

It just isn’t worth it! Thinking about it will just make it harder to deal with, in a sense, you are fantasizing about each other. I believe it is morally wrong for one, because it is adultery, even in the heart.

Set your mind against it. If you are brave enough, admit it to your spouse. It may hurt them like crazy, but not as much as if you went through with it, and I find that once something is out in the open, it takes the power out of the fantasy, since it’s attraction is usually the grass is always greener on the other side.

The answer to that, I read on a book cover many years ago, is because it is over the septic tank. The other thing, is put yourself in your spouses shoes, how would you feel if they did it to you? PS.

I lost everything in the end. My marriage, my home, and custody of my daughters. Sources: My own bad choices in the past.

1 If you haven't acted on it for 2 decades, it seems like you should be able to continue on as it is. I hope you do.

If you haven't acted on it for 2 decades, it seems like you should be able to continue on as it is. I hope you do.

2 If you've been able to not act upon it this long, I see no reason why you can't keep on doing so. Naturally, it's unfair to both of your spouses, however. I'm sure that they would be devastated to learn that they are not the real loves of your lives.

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2 If you've been able to not act upon it this long, I see no reason why you can't keep on doing so. Naturally, it's unfair to both of your spouses, however. I'm sure that they would be devastated to learn that they are not the real loves of your lives.

If you've been able to not act upon it this long, I see no reason why you can't keep on doing so. Naturally, it's unfair to both of your spouses, however. I'm sure that they would be devastated to learn that they are not the real loves of your lives.

" "My sister in law is getting married next year. " "my brother in law is going in the army and my sister and I want to make a toast to him. Can you help me find the words?

" "Is it cheating? Married people having online friendships or relationships with others who are also married? " "My brother in law is cheating on my sister do I tell?

" "my brother is laW IN LANDING IN US ON IMMIGRATION WITH HSI FAMILY. HE WAS SPONSORED BY HIS SISTER. HE INTENDS TO GO TO C" "What to do when the one you love is married to another?

" "My future sister in law seems to think she is her brother's keeper. He's 52, she's 50. What do I do?

" "wish I knew how to tell her I love her. We're friends now. I wish I knew how she felt too.. perhaps I shd wait :s.

My sister in law is getting married next year.

My brother in law is going in the army and my sister and I want to make a toast to him. Can you help me find the words?

My brother is laW IN LANDING IN US ON IMMIGRATION WITH HSI FAMILY. HE WAS SPONSORED BY HIS SISTER. HE INTENDS TO GO TO C.

My future sister in law seems to think she is her brother's keeper. He's 52, she's 50. What do I do?

Wish I knew how to tell her I love her. We're friends now. I wish I knew how she felt too.. perhaps I shd wait :s.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.