Sister is getting married...brother in law is cheating.?

Its not your fault..your sister in law is just a b****. Just ignore her =P.

She sounds really seflish. She's not thinking of her brothers happiness but just the fact that she wants him always there for her. If this is affecting your mental wellbeing to the extent that you have to see a therapist then you need him to confront her and tell her to have more respect for you as a woman who is making her brother happy.

There must be something a lot deeper going on between them but there is not point speculating on it because that is an issue they need to work out between themselves in the family. You should sit your husband down and just tell him how you trully feel about it. If it carries on then this WILL drive a wedge between you too ultimately leading to divorce because there is only soo much you can take.

If she was indifferent to you and completely ignored you then it would be a bit better but she is going one step further and sending you abusive messages(!) ...not good.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.