What are the signs that a man having an affair with someone else?

Believe it or not, he may start showing you MORE affection, buying you things, etc, to keep you happy. But while he does that, you may notice: -He has started carrying more cash and using his plastic less -He has strange charges on his cards if he still uses them -He is very protective of his phone and doesn't want you to answer it or see who it is if it rings -He doesn't answer his phone in front of you -He starts going out "with the guys" a lot more -He has friends you haven't met and he doesn't seem to want to introduce you (they know about The Other Woman) -He starts working out unexpectedly -He locks his computer or erases the browser history often -He keeps spare clothes at work or in his car -s friends act differently around you (especially female friends! ) -He is irritable and/or jumpy around you -He accuses you of having an affair or being unfaithful Of course, you know him, so you know what's out of place.

Your gut will tell you if something is wrong, but the best course of action may be to flat out ask him what's going on. You don't need to accuse him. Rather, you can say something like "I'm concerned because I've noticed a change in you.

I want to make sure everything is okay. " Then listen carefully for what he is saying and not saying. Bottom line: if you absolutely can't trust him, he's not worth being with, even if he's NOT cheating.

According to Dr. Dave and Dr. Dee, these are the signs that a man is having an affair with someone else: ---quote--- 1. He embarks in a drastic makeover. 2.

He will treat you differently - even on a subconscious level. 3. He may mention new people, places and things, while the people, places and things he normally talks about are no longer a part of his conversation.

4. Makes his work as a common excuse to be late in coming home. 5. There is a deviation in common daily routine.6.

He is secretive about his finances.7. Often travels.8. Change in attitude, personality, and behavior.9.

He is often away.10. Change of frequency and quality of sex life.11. Changes in the type of food he eats.

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It usually starts with a gut feeling. Their maybe a sudden increase in excuses for not being available. Not answering your phone calls.

The changes maybe something small like comming home later than normal. Going out for some guy time. Before any judgements can be made do some simple investigating.

If you think you have reason more than likely you do. Like I told my brother If it walks like a duck you don't have to hear the quack to know its a duck. Don't let it go to the seconed duckness.

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