What is the most romantic thing someone has ever done for you?

When I've been in the hospital on and off for the last 2 years my husband will come in every so often without our daughter and crawl into the bed with me and hold me. I've never felt so loved as in those moments, and true romance as he sneaks in and closes the blinds ...

That was an internet chat with my girlfriend. I still remember it.

Alberish- That's amazing. I wish someone would do that for me. Lol.

Thanks for sharing.

I hate romance, so I rather they don't do anything romantic for me, it make me feel as if I grew a vigina and a pair of boobs and lost my penius.

My love hired an entire old and lovely pension house with a spa in the basement. Lit candles all the way from the yard outside down into the spa room with a large mosaic bathtub filled with spa flavored hot water, drinks on serve and all drowned in soft and beautiful classical music. While bathing the staff upstairs in the kitchen prepared our dinner so we could whiff the delicious smell of new baked bread and exquisite dishes.

Later the staff served the dinner and left us all alone in the pension at a glass veranda with a view of the darkening skies near the riverbed. The dessert was served by the fireplace in large castle-like living room as we rested together talking and laughing, caressing on large divan and music and candlelight added to the magic of being abundant by space and comfort in near togetherness.

Well I find it romantic and sweet and it is package in simplest yet wrap with sincerity and affection..on my birthday he send me musical birthday card and my favorite reading materials do he is busy in his work, he find time to go to the bookstore and have it for me hahaha, address in my school way back in college..it says there anonymous...i didn't yet open the letter cos I have still class at that time and I was saving the suspense and all the giggles in the privacy of my room later in our home..zooooooom in our home,in my room I open it and its so cuteeeee..musical birthday card with heart warming words from him that he wrote and plus reading materials that I really love...suddenly tears of joy in my eyes cos its so sweet of him...and you know why this is so special and romantic is that fact that...he is not my bf...yet "HE KNEW ME WELL "..that says a lot to a person!..he must be paying attention and observing me from a far...and I would not trade those simple stuff to luxurious gift ..if he happened to not know me at all...cos it is very important that your future someone special or current or something to know even simple things that you like " LIKE YOUR FAVE COLOR" :)..then while im reading and checking at his gift..my phone rang and his on the line hahahahahahaha..i said to him thank you! ,,,i ask him how you know this is my favorite stuff to read?..he just said I know...and he just laugh..im so surprise that time knowing he is not the that type I mean romantic or cheesy! ..

You know... there are the showy things, the "Big Romantic Gestures" which stay with us through time... but there are the seemingly little, day-to-day things, the weekly things, the on-going, living life gestures that, while they go less noticed by many, mean more to me. While I once received 4 dozen roses in four separate deliveries from one man for Valentines Day many, many years ago, and while, at the time, I thought that was the most romantic thing that anyone had ever done for me... now, I place much higher value on the five solid days and nights spent in the hospital with me, sharing my fears and pain and getting me through the experience. Soft caresses, wonderful kisses, gentle touches of reassurance mean more than any flower ever could.

The day to day living and loving is more romance than I had ever hoped to have in my life. The most romantic thing anyone has ever done for me was to love me, unconditionally, carefully, and respectfully. I am a blessed woman.

When my girlfriend (now wife) and I started dating, she got the keys to my apartment and decorated it to surprise me. Just to say I love you. She took 50 balloons, and placed 50 love notes inside each.

I came home to find my bedroom filled with helium balloons! One by one I popped them all. I still have those notes 5 years later.

Just little slips of paper with wishes for us, and dreams of things we could do together. The ironic part of it all, was halfway through the "popping" I just casually said " I could marry you ya know". The very next balloon I popped had a note that said " I'd marry you".

Coincidence? Maybe, but I married her 1 1/2 years later. And I love her more than I did 5 years ago.

My boyfriend offers may small kindnesses, that I am very comforted by. I think the most cute/romantic thing someone ever did for me, however, was something an ex boyfriend did. I have a lot of piercings in my ears, many of which were new when we were together.

He noticed that I slept with my head at an angle, directly on the mattress because it was painful to have my head on the pillow. He went out and got a memory foam pillow, carefully measured and cut a hole in it, and then paid a seamstress to make a special pillow case with a little inverted "box" of fabric that went down in the hole. Then he gave me the pillow and a soft fleece blanket so I could have a good night's sleep.

I don't use the pillow anymore, but I sleep with the blanket every night. I still appreciate him for that. It was so thoughtful and cute.

Sounds like a big dramatic gesture is not needed to make your loved one happy. :).

As for the partner I have now it would have to be anything I guess that has no act of selfishness what so ever! Anything!

A small kiss, a sexy look and night out..................

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