What should you do if you're in an affair with a married man and for over a year and a half there have been nothing but broken promises?

" on this site. I have experienced the other side, but can remember what it was like to be where you are now. However, our promises to each other WERE fulfilled.

My contact information is at the bottom of my entry if you would like to contact me personally. I certainly empathize with your situation Answer Well I have been on both sides too. I have been cheated on and done the cheating but I never would mess with another womans man or husband.

That is dirty selfish and low Answer You should do nothing but repent and ask God for forgiveness and then leave him and find a man of your own. If you were married how would you like it if someone was with your husband for a year and a half? Evidently you need help not him but you.

You have NO MORALS, LOW SELF-ESTEEM, and obviously VERY VERY BAD JUDGEMENT of character. Why do I say this and I don't even know you? Because you with a da*m married man.

Get a life Answer break his heart and leave...ain't it obvious!? Answer I can't resist what I am about to say: How would you feel if you were married and your husband was cheating on you? If the answer to that is "bad", why would you even be in a relationship knowing you could be hurting another person(s)?

If you are heartless enought to not be bothered by the possibility of hurting other people, then, aren't you tough enough to take a little betrayal yourself? Oh, by the way: He's never going to leave his wife. If anything, your presence is making their love stronger Get with the program.

You're insecure and love the feeling of being able to steal a man away from his wedded one. However, if you'll look closely, it doesn't take THAT much to distract a man like him away from his family ... he's lacking integrity (because he's lying to his family). Fulfill your sense of self elsewhere and stop undermining your fellow women Answer I think a married man's mistress is always in a losing position.

What usually happens is the man realises after the lust wears off that the mistress is human with flaws. The wife then becomes more appealing as he may come to accept her humanity and with that, flaws even more! The mistress never wins.

She ends up alone. While the wife gets her old husband back and they might actually start having romance and fun again, then the mistress is dumped. Don't go with a married man.

You are not second best. Please think of his wife. She may really love him, NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS!

Answer 1. I have been cheated on and abandoned by my husband and have suffered through a long drawn out 2 year divorce. 2.

I have also been preyed upon by a married man looking to cheat on his wife while I was suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. The married man who did this was my attorney - a man in a professional position of trust! He took advantage of my weakened state and of my emotions.

He lied to me. I fell in love with him and then he went back to his wife I have been left by my husband and I have been left by my lover. Nothing is ever all black or all white.

Each situation is different. Many unhappy men leave their marriages even if the marriage CAN be saved. Many men choose to stay in unhappy marriages just because they are afraid of change.

Two-time loser ANSWER I was the other woman. I met the most wonderful man at work, he was handsome, funny and had all the same characteristics as I do. We clicked.

He was married for 12 years ( no kids ) . At first we just talked about movies, then we started going out to have drinks after work, later movies after work. Later he asked me if he could kiss me.

I said yes, that was when the affair began.It was supposed to be harmless. But then he started telling me how his wife, (who is a lawyer in DC) disrespects him, how she bullies him, how she treats him like her son instead of her husband. He would tell me about her affairs and how she would work till late hours of the night and he felt lonely.

I felt sorry for him. I never wanted to fall in love with him. But I did.

We had a short 3 month whirlwind romance. He then decided he wanted to move out and be with me. I was so happy.

S wife begged him to go to a Marriage counselling. He went , after the 4th session, he called me up and said that the shrink told him to value the sanctity of his vows. He just changed his mind and went back to his wife.

I tried to ask him to think about it, but he said that he wanted to salvage his marriage. I was utterly heartbroken. I tried to move on from there, but I was so in love with him.At that time I had left the company and moved away.

He then called me up and said that he was still in love with me and he didn't want me out of his life. We carried on a cyber affair for 3 months. All this while, believeing I was the only person he loved, but it wasn't true.

It appears he was having it both ways. He had his wife, his home, his lifestyle and he had me to make him feel good about himself. I recently sent him a break-up letter explaining why I couldn't go on.

He never intended on leaving his wife. I was just fooling myself. I realise that now.

No matter how much I loved him, the matter of fact is he is selfish, weak and spineless I have decided I don't want to love him anymore. True, married men will never leave their wives.!

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