Cheating is grounds for divorce. Either get a divorce or become swingers.
I complement you on your willingness to work things out with your husband. Family from breaking up. The woman he now loves met that need, and ended his frustration.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.