What will you do if a guy you are dating tells you that he is not ready to be in a relationship?

She should NOT wait. A lot of people will take a very romantic fairy-tale view and say that sooner or later, if they love each other, true love will happen. But you know what?

That's not real life. Refusal to commit is refusal to commit. He may care about you, but he is NOT there for you as a partner if that's what you're looking for.

And the chances of him resolving his commitment issues before you become miserable about your unrequited love are slim to none. Don't allow yourself to slip into a fantasy world that isn't giving you what you want. It will be flattering to him to have a woman dangling around waiting to jump on him when he says so.

It may even be more fun for him than actually having the woman. And certainly convenient, if he ever gets lonely and wants to amuse himself for a little while. But it will be nothing but damaging to you.

2 I completely agree with you Persnicula! You shouldn't put yourself out there if he doesn't want a relationship. Loving you for now doesn't sound as good as loving you forever.

A commitment says that he will love you forever and plans on making a commitment work. If there isn't a commitment then there is nothing to grow on. Take it from me, wait for someone who wants all of you, relationship and all.

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