Husband/wife, mother/daughter, father/son...etc. Asked by smartcookie 49 months ago Similar questions: toughest relationship negotiate Husband wife mother daughter father son Lifestyle > Relationships.
Similar questions: toughest relationship negotiate Husband wife mother daughter father son.
Husband/Wife I think the husband/wife relationship is the toughest simply because you are together the longest. There are multiple aspects to that relationship, you have to be friends, lovers, partners in decsion making... As a child you only have a short period of time where your relationship with your parents is tough, whereas being the parent, you think the entire time your child is alive that relationship is tough, but as husband/wife, you are together before you have children, while you have children, and depending your beliefs even in death you are together. I have two small children right now, so I have a long way to go with the parent/child relationship, but I have been with my husband for 10+ years now.
Sometimes I want to strangle him, and other times I just can't get enough. It's definitely been a rocky road, but we've hung in and with a little faith, maybe we'll be there till the end.
Ok here's my opinion 1. Step-parent/parent 2. Mother & father /daughter 3.
Sibling/sibling (same sex siblings more, sister/sister the worst) 4. Mother/ daughter father/son 5. Husband/wife This is just from personal experience, nothing more:) .
I feel all three can be tough to negotiate at different stages of life. It's obvious that when two people marry they will both experience the many new realizations that come their way in life. Who does what?
Who spent what? Where are we going for the holidays? It's takes a couple of years at least to iron out the differences and know what buttons not to push.
I have always stated, it doesn't matter what two people are living under the same roof, it will take time to adapt to being with each other on a daily basis. I can speak for the mother/daughter relationship also because I am a daughter and I am a mother of two adult daughters. There were times in their lives where they were not seeking my advice and not enjoying the fact that I was offering an opinion, or simply telling them no.
Now that they have become adults it is simply great but Moms can be tough on their daughters because I believe they are women also and they know what is expected in life of them in that regard. They know how they want to raise them and what type of woman they would like to see them become. I have only one son and I pretty much left a lot of things up to my husband in that department.
I feel I had my hands full with the girls and all of their activities and I knew what was expected. I have no doubt he too knew what he felt was important to relay to our son in order for him to become a strong individual. I of course, adore my son and I certainly stated many things along the way that I felt was important in life and he learned so much about women from his sisters.In fact, I have said many times throughout his life that he had so much attention and information about life from his sisters and mom and dad that he was mature by the time he reached high school.
I think we overdid it and we laugh about it often. Right now, at 24, he has more sense than most 30 year olds. I haven't had problems with any of my children and I feel it is because we have had a very close family experience with parents who were extremely hands on.
I would imagine that we are also very fortunate. The answer to this question is that I feel all three of the relationships you mentioned can be quite difficult at certain times in life. I do know the rewards after all the hard work are incredible!
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Father/ Daughter I know from my own personal experience that my father and I have a horrible relationship. He and I were very close when I was younger. It seems as though when I hit my teenage years that all changed and now he and I cannot get along for more than a few minutes at a time.
I don't know why this is. Maybe I have crushed some of his dreams and dissappointed him too many times. Maybe it is just what my mother says, that he and I are too much alike.
If you factor in alcohol, which he is severly addicted to, then I cant stand him. I love him because he is my father. I hate him because of the pain he has caused and continues to cause.
I don't know how to overcome something that is continuing to happen over and over again. It is a very disfunctional relationship. Short of staying away from my mother and him, I don't know how to handle this situation.
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I would say father son, after puberty,because it can become a battle of testosterone I think all the other relationships are easier to make work.
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Can the mother of my grandchildren change their last name if their father is in prison, against my son's will.
My daughter would like to have a relationship with her ex step mother.
If the mother is AB and the father is O blood type is it possible to have a son type O.
Can a mother with a+ blood and a father with o- makes a daughter with b+ blood type.
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