Why do people think you choose to be transgender? And that if your dysphoria isn't bad enough to force you into surgery you're not trans?

I can't tell you who to choose. But I can say this. Do one or the other.

Make a decision and once you've made that decision, commit to it.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.