Why has my wife become materialistic?

This might be the reason she "hates" it. Another possible reason is that it might be too close to a past rape or near rape experience. Anyway, as others have said, it's not "great foreplay" if she hates it.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.