Why is it some females can disrespect herself but gets upset when a male does it?

I'm not intending to offend anyone either. The female you described is the same kind of female who would say that she hates other females (like you and me who are trying to point out her dilemma). It is a problem of self-worth.

If she treats herself like a dollar-store item - usually displayed on the sidewalk with other cheap stuff, she will attract friends who are looking for cheap stuff. If she considers herself a diamond - protected by boundaries, to admired but not available to be explored, she will attract friends who subscribe to her value.

Whether we attract men who devalue us, or men who protect our value is based on our own self-portrait. We are all responsible for teaching our morally-challenged sisters how to love, respect and present themselves. We should not take it for granted that they know.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.