Why would my fiance's female friend keep asking him if I am jealous of her?

One thing I've learned about men is that sometimes they are oblivious to other women hitting on them. I totally understand how you feel. My boyfriend is a super nice guy and that is why I love him but I too struggle with that ugly green monster, jealousy.

He is always talking to his "girl" friends and giving them advice about their relationships and I agree with what he says but I'm like really? Do they really have no one to talk to but my boyfriend? Lol He does give great advice.

The thing I've learned is to talk, talk and talk some more. I tell him when something bothers me the second I realize it does/did. We discuss it and move on.

I figure if I can't talk to him about something that causes me distress then I don't want to be with him. But, I always can. :o) You are clearly distressed by this woman's inappropriate behavior.

I don't blame you. But, she does it to everyone based on what you said. Women like that are insecure themselves and are looking for attention else ware that they aren't getting at home.

To me she is a ticking time bomb. She may go to far... You never know. But like you said you trust him.

So let him handle that part of it. He will probably come back and say you were right I found out she was sleeping with half the office and is getting a divorce! Lol Just talk to him about it and let him reassure you as he should.

Feelings are feelings not good or bad they just are. Since you guys love each other, share your feelings. Don't let it eat at you.

Don't let her get the best of you either. She isn't worth it as he is with you and not her. Good luck doll!

You say that he'd never cheat. You also say that she might misinterpret his friendliness as something more. So if that was the case, and she propositioned him - does he not have a choice whether to take her up on her offer?

You don't trust him at all! Trust doesn't mean going through his phone on the sly. You may not trust her, that's fine.

You don't need to trust her. If you trust him, then why are you worried? It just sounds like a good, innocent, working relationship - nothing more.

In every setting, he is going to encounter a female. Stop creating unnecessary tension and confusion within yourself by going through his phone. I would be mega p'd off if my partner did that to me.

Not that I have anything to hide, but I would feel that he couldn't take me at face value, as I am - trustworthy and loyal. Jealousy will eat you alive, and it will tear your relationship apart if you allow it to. It just makes me wonder - why are you So down on yourself when he has proposed marriage to you?

That surely has to count for something?

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