Is it unreasonable to be jealous of my fiance's female friend?

If this was me I would be mortified! Jealous? Offended I would be furious!

Even if his friend was ill or having a bad time he could have bought you flowers too (even if on a budget could have split the money he spent on her flowers between the two of you?!?!?) you say he is currently abroad, where is this 'friend' and what has she done for him to deserve better treatment than his fiance? Imagine for a moment that the situation was reversed a bit, it valentines day and you are receiving gifts from male friends while your partner is out of the country? Would your fella put up with it?

Would he be happy for you? I'm sorry but I doubt it very much. Is he due home soon?( this isn't really the the sort of conversation to have on the phone) if so then when he gets back you need to sit down together and ask him why?

Try not to rant and rave(although I imagine it will be hard not to) talk calmly but ask the questions that are eating you away in side, do you think he is cheating? , is he just really inconsiderate? What has she done to deserve flowers and not you?( I find it helps to sit down on your own 1st and have a really good heart to heart with yourself and perhaps write down what you are feeling/want to know?) ask him how he would feel if it was the other way round and it was you getting flowers?

I really hope you can sort this out good luck.

Yes you are right to be jealous or offended . If I am in this situation I would be furious too. I would think why is that girl so special and giving her flowers on Valentines day.

Is there something going on between them?

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.

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