Are people who commit suicide cowards?

I was in depression and tried to commit suicide twice. When my parents found out they went crazy calling me a coward and this and that and that why am I sad when other people have it worse than me. By that logic, why are you happy if other people have it better?

I was in a deep dark pit, I felt unbelievably lonely and empty and trapped I felt like the weight of the world was on my shoulders. I couldn't trust my friends, my judgemental strictly religious parents were out of the questions, and I knew that if I told a teacher she would in turn tell the school and the school would tell my parents and they would beat me for feeling sad. I truly felt like nobody cared, nobody listened, if I opened up to a friend they would call me stupid or a coward, it was like I was a burden to society andit would be better off with out me.

I felt so worthless I would cry for hours at night this was every day for years and years it was like psychological torture and I just wanted all the hurt to stop. I didn't have any more strength to keep fighting I hated myself I hated what I saw in the mirror I felt useless. So now when I hear people say "Why are they sad" or "They are stupid / cowards for killing themselves" I go off on them, because until they are in that deep of a depression they have absolute no right to talk.

And I hear people say that they have been through that and this and all sorts of hardships and they never thought about killing themselves. Well good for f*cking them, they have the highest self-confidence and are strong or had a great support system or at least they have an outlet to empty their sadness and anger. Not everyone can be hyper positive all the time, not everyone has that amazing inner strength, not everyone has the perfect family, bf / gf, or friends.

Not everyone can get up quickly after they fall down. So instead of labelling them as cowards, idiots, losers, or whatnot help them. The last thing they need is people judging them or calling them names.

Get off the "My life is awesome" train and lend a helping hand, help them see the light at the end of the tunnel. Don't just stand in the boat and watch them drown, or worse insult them, throw them a rope for sh*ts sake.

SELFISH cowards. Because they don't think about what their cowardly act will do to their family. Of course we should have sympathy for people who are hurting so bad that they consider taking their own lives, but suicide is just plain STUPID.

It is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. It is putting pride before ASKING FOR HELP. It is just WRONG.

The only time suicide is OK is if the person has an incurable disease and they do it with their families' support and a doctor's help. Jumping off a building is cowardly and unbelievably selfish.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.

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