I kind of want to say cry me a river on the whole Dad subject, but don't touch it. It's probably already infected. Do you want to to get worse?
Just wear your hair down, Dad's going to see it some time.
It is going to be red but keep cleaning it and when you are able to take it out then sleep with the earring out. You probably can change it now.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.