How can my child benefit from my unconditional love?

The more children are accepted for who they are, the greater their ability to differentiate, to cope with the demands of life and reach their goals. All children learn who they are through the people around them. For most children, that begins with their parents, who mirror and echo the child.

That message is transmitted primarily by action and attitude; even the infant receives the message in the preverbal years. Children who are loved unconditionally learn that they are inherently lovable and acceptable. Parents who have misgivings about themselves or poor self-esteem will project that message onto the child.

The child will see and experience that attitude, interpreting it to mean that it arises from how the parent feels about her. For the child, looking into the parent’s face is like looking in a mirror, hearing the parent’s voice is like hearing an echo. The child has no reason to doubt the message the parent is giving.

That is why it is particularly important that in the first years of a child’s life she be taken seriously, that she be accepted for who she is.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.

Related Questions