How do I regain trust for my boyfriend of four years?

You never learn to trust anyone a 100% this is what my late father told me way back when I was growing up. Trust is something to gain and if someone blows it you may never be able to trust him again. Two wrongs don't make a right and just because your boyfriend cheated on you did not make it right for you to cheat on him.

Take the higher road- learn to forgive but you may never forget what he did to you.

FORGET IT............. You will never fully trust him again. Call it quits which you should have done the moment you found out he was cheating on you. Spend time by yourself and with your friends having fun.

You either trust me again or you doin't, there is not regaining. Thatis often just a word for justifying your lack of trust.

If your answer is the latter, pursuing the relationship is a futile endeavor, and you're probably better off ending the relationship immediately. A relationship without trust is no relationship at all.

That was great advice Runs with Spirits, it really made me put some thought into this. Thank You.

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