I've seen that sometimes it takes training for the hair to get used to what you're doing. So often, you'll need tor repeat the process and show your hair that we're headed for a different style. And I would agree with jcm_blabs.
You have to tie it up at night.
Try wearing some sort of head wrap, like a bandana, cut panty hose or a ski cap. They've worked for me as I have the same hair type.
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