I am about to graduate. I live in a boring town in Louisiana and want to move to California but my boyfriend refuses to?

I am about to graduate. I live in a boring town in Louisiana and want to move to California but my boyfriend refuses to? Asked by kkay 10 months ago Similar questions: graduate live boring town Louisiana move California boyfriend refuses Entertainment.

Similar questions: graduate live boring town Louisiana move California boyfriend refuses.

Very common dilemma. Very easy answer. You are young.Do what is right for you, not for him.

Your profession and future are with you forever. He probably won't be.

I've never really looked at things that way. You have really opened my eyes. Thanks a lot!

Kkay 10 months ago .

Boyfriends come, and boyfriends go, but life experiences are forever. Go, find yourself, see the world. Grow.

You only live once. You will resent him, and regret it forever if you don't. I would recommend San Francisco, but let your heart be your guide.

Good luck.

It's all about him! How about you! You have worked hard to get a qualification and get into a good career.

He should support you if you are unable to succeed where you are. Where is his spirit of adventure, what does he want from life? Communicate with him, tell him you need to move for good reasons, ask why he wants to stay?

Jexebellion 10 months ago.

Migrate to Australia! Jexebellion 10 months ago.

That would be truely amazing! But I have family in California, and they love it there. Kkay 10 months ago .

What Oldppie said about California is true. I'm surprised he didn't mention the Haight being overrun by gutter punks. Even with all that going against it I still think San Francisco is the best place for a free spirit.

No you don't. You do not want to move to California. In 2010, Louisiana's unemployment rate was 8%.

Ours is 10%. We are no longer the friendly, welcoming place we have unjustly been given the reputation for being. Your boyfriend is right to be wary; there are no jobs here and what jobs we used to have are being fought over by illegal immigrants who will work for below minimum wage if only to get the gig.

You can't compete with that (and shouldn't. ) Find a job in Louisiana and be happy with that. Meanwhile, make your own entertainment; it's not as if you could go to Disneyland every day, anyway.

When you leave for California...wish your ex boy friend good luck and a happy life.Now...you try to do the same. I greatly prefer northern California but most new comers gravitate to LA. Many a pretty girl has had the LA experience of watching her naïve hopes and dreams dashed against the rocks of reality.

Keep a steady head on your shoulders. It helps if you have a friend or family member in the area when you are new to an area.

California is NOT the Promised Land. Why the hell would you want to move there? Smog so thick you can cut it with a knife.

The state is about to go bankrupt which means there will be a cutback on essential services and the infrastructure of the state will go belly-up.....no highway repairs, no nothing. Gas prices are very high. Illegals crossing the border are bringing their gang-banger and drug problems with them.

And let's not forget the danger of earthquakes - the so-called Big One probably isn't that far off. Despite what anyone else might say, I think your boyfriend is showing some good, common sense. Louisiana may be boring and I'd tend to agree with you on that (although the food is great!), but there are other, better places in the US than the land of fruits and nuts.

If you're so insistent on getting out of Louisiana, you'd be better off moving to Seattle, Portland, Dallas or Houston....you should check and see what the quality of life is in other places before pulling up stakes and relocating. Right now, California isn't someplace you'd want to go to. Think about what you're going to do when you get to wherever.....the cost of living....unemployment (are there jobs?

).....how will you live? Don't make a mistake that will ruin your life and have everyone saying "I told you so." California may look nice on TV and in the movies, but that's a fantasy world - the real California right now isn't a good place to move to.

I see there are some people who don't appreciate truth and honesty, but at least one does. California is no longer the land of sun, sand, and surf. It's the land of unemployment, bankruptcy and millions of illegal immigrants.

And half of the latter are carrying guns and drugs! .

I lived in California for four years, its all Illegal Immigrants and there is no work unless you create it. Hunger and poverty everywhere. You have to arrive with the desire to grow your own food, and keep everything cleaned around your residence (external), also the healthcare is bad and third world diseases such as SMALLPOX exists because of lack of vacinations.

Men get into arguments with inpoverished individuals try Moving to Another State.

" "Okay I live in a boring town. Movie theatre, small mall, and park. That's it.

I wanna do something fun with my boyfriend" "If I have kids and boyfriend does not. If we live together shouldnt he have to move where I am? He doesn't like the town" "my boyfriend & I are seniors in college & we r in a LDR.

We want to be together for graduate school. Should I move away?" "Our first child on the way, moved to different state for job, boyfriend on disability but refuses to move. What to do?

Okay I live in a boring town. Movie theatre, small mall, and park. That's it.

I wanna do something fun with my boyfriend.

If I have kids and boyfriend does not. If we live together shouldnt he have to move where I am? He doesn't like the town.

My boyfriend & I are seniors in college & we r in a LDR. We want to be together for graduate school. Should I move away?

Our first child on the way, moved to different state for job, boyfriend on disability but refuses to move. What to do?

You're welcome! Chowfan. Jexebellion 55 months ago.

You're welcome! Chowfan. Jexebellion 59 months ago.

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