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I want to move across the country but my boyfriend doesn't want to come with me. Should I leave or stay in a town I hate? We've talked for months about getting married and he planned to propose soon.
I think he is unsure now. He thinks if I go with out him I will never come back and he said he will never come live where I want to go. He also thinks I will cheat on him, but I never have or ever will.
I just have no friends here and a terrible job and my parents are moving away too. I don't want to lose him, I love him very much. But if I stay here I will be miserable.
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It sounds like you have you answer in your question. Also, he hasn't asked you to marry him yet...askville.amazon.com»
Skylight said it again... If you will be miserable, there will be other guys. I had a journalism prof tell me this when I was in my early 20s. It was hard to believe then, but he was so right in so many different ways.askville.amazon.com»
Honestly, it doesn't sound like you really have him. He's too hesitant, in my opinion. If he is so unwilling to go with you, trust you, and finally propose to you, why even question this?
You would be staying for a guy who will not commit to you in any way. That would be foolish of you. You would grow to resent him and would probably end up breaking up anyway.
If you have a chance for happiness and finding a guy who really loves you by moving, why would you imprison yourself by staying in a town you hate for the sake of a guy who sounds like a jerk? Good luck with your decision.askville.amazon.com»
My boyfriend tells me to leave and that he wants to break up, when i'm gone he misses me and wants to stay with me.askville.amazon.com»
For one thing, marriage is about compromise, and if he's unwilling to do his part when it comes to a balanced relationship, it's definitely not worth it. Plus, it sounds to me like he might be using the prospect of marriage to keep you where you are. It's all about control, and that is not love.
Lastly, you have to look out for your own happiness before you can be happy with someone else.askville.amazon.com»
I definitely agree with everything all the others said. I only wanted to add a bit of personal history. I had moved away from a place I hated but then met someone from that place and fell in love with him.
We married and moved back here---yes, I'm still here---and I've hated this place even more than I did before! I guess I'm trying to say: Spread your wings while you can and don't stop following your dreams because of someone else. It's really not worth it.
I've got a great marriage but I've always regretted moving back here. Thanks. I hope this helps.askville.amazon.com»
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