I cried in front of my mom. Know I feel like a b*tch. Why?

I see it like this: Generally it's okay for people to have a different opinion about something than the majority does - but ONLY, if you can actually bring forth good arguments for your case. "I don't like interracial marriage" is NOT a good argument. Would you like it if somebody would force you to live, say, in a homosexual relationship or in a different house or have a completely different diet simply because they don't like the way you live now?!

Of course not! So how could your daughter be not angry about your desire for her to find someone else to marry? If you want to convince people (particularly your daughter) you need good, RATIONAL and OBJECTIVE reasons why it's not a good move for her to marry an Indian guy, which will be very difficult to come up with if he is a fine young man as you say yourself.

If you believe that he will be a bad husband/father simply for the reason that his skin is a little darker, I'm afraid you are indeed a racist. I live in an interracial (and intercultural) long-term relationship myself and I can tell you that I would be royally pissed if my parents were to dislike my girlfriend/future wife for being from a different part of the world. Also, even IF you can come up with reasonable arguments for your case, you have to learn to accept that this is not your life but your daughter's life.

She has to make her own choices and become happy. As a European I often feel like American parents baby their kids wayyyy too much. Your daughter might be younger than you and have less life experience but she has a heart like yourself and a capacity for logical thinking like yourself.

If she is 16+ years old, she's old enough to decide for herself. Otherwise, she will never become a mature, self-relying member of our society.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.