My husband and I haven't been intimate since his job lost, what to do?

A woman's sex drive lowers (sometimes disappears) while she's raising small children. Mother nature provides this so her nurturing is focused on the kids." THATS A LOAD OF HORSE PUCKS.

I'm a mother of 6 and never ever EVER lost my sex drive. Your wife needs to see a doctor about her sex drive or a mental health professional to fix her mind. In any event, its not normal for you to think that way or for her to lose sex drive because of children.

She may be too tired to have sex or lost focus of what having a partner is about but you are not alone. It seems a lot of women stop being the sexual creatures they were before you put a ring on it but after marriage or kids, they stop. Its not that they have lost their sex drive, its they feel they have what they wanted & don't have to keep you sexually satisfied anymore... Tell wifey to go to the doctor for help, if she doesn't want to do that then open up more often just because she loves you or you will find it elsewhere.

A woman's sex drive lowers (sometimes disappears) while she's raising small children. Mother nature provides this so her nurturing is focused on the kids. If you are concerned about your sex life, and if you have been concerned, why didn't you tell her you miss the closeness and physical intimacy?

I was married, I had children, and I also have a pretty good understanding of the male sex drive, so I continued to have sex with my husband, when sometimes I didn't feel like it at first. But after a few minutes I got into it. Without that sexual bond, a couple loses their sense of emotional closeness as the rule.

Maybe it's time for you to become a hands-on father (if you're not one now), be more affectionate and appreciative of your wife, compliment her at times, let her know you love her, and take her out on dates. Just because you have kids doesn't mean there is no romance. If you want the relationship, then be an active part of it.

And talk with her.

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