Should I let my ex bf new gf know he still txts me and comes to visit me for sex or should I let her find out on her own?

It's pretty clear that this guy is really a two-faced liar. I'm not sure why you would want to consider still seeing someone that would betray another person like this. Yes there is a history between you and that you might still have feelings for him but his actions should show that he has no consideration for anyone other than himself.

Even if she dumped him and he came back to you, you know that you would never trust him and that you would be degrading yourself to accept him back, since he would only be coming back because he figures he can have his cake and eat it too. You accepted his behavior with her so he would do the same to you when the time became right. You might do yourself a favor and move on from him.

You could save her the future problems by telling her but most likely she either wouldn't believe you or you could put yourself at physical risk of her or his retribution. Best of luck but my opinion is drop him, move on, and don't put yourself in a bad situation.

You should tell her, AFTER it STOPS. If he's cheating on her with you (yes, he WAS yours, but now you're the "other woman), he's probably cheating with others as well. Both you and her are at risk for contracting a sexually transmitted disease.

For this reason, I think she's entitled to the truth. Only you can decide what you want to do here, but I personally would not be sleeping with my ex while he dates another girl. He's sending you a message loud and clear: "you aren't good enough for my emotional affection, and I don't want to be seen with you in public.

I certainly don't see a future with you, but hey, you're easy! " Why would you want to be with a guy like that? Please note, I am NOT saying that you're "easy" or calling you cheap.

I'm saying that you're being treated that way, and you deserve better. If you want to stay with this guy, and try to be a couple again, keep in mind that he has no qualms about cheating, and also that he doesn't seem to respect you very much. If it were me, I'd call him and tell him in no uncertain terms that I consider our relationship done, and that he should stop calling and texting.

Then I'd call his girlfriend and tell her that she needs to get checked for STDs because her boyfriend is running all around town. Then I'd follow that advice myself.

Honestly, if he is your Ex then you should be respectful of yourself and put a stop to the texting and sexual visits. He has a girlfriend and he is still contacting you as if you are still seeing each other. Allowing this is an injustice to yourself as he can not be faithful to either one of you.

Telling the girlfriend won't do anything unless you want to cause problems. She will find out soon enough if he continues this behavior.

It is best for you to stop allowing him to come over. That is just being used. Telling her will cause problems that you probably do not need.

But only you can make him stop coming over for sex.

You are nothing but a booty call, probably because the other girl has respect for herself and doesn't give it up so fast.

Unlike others, I don't see a problem with continuing to have sex with your ex-boyfriend if both of you are very clear about the parameters of the relationship. Sometimes two people just don't want to have a full-blown relationship anymore but are still attracted to each other. It doesn't mean either party's being disrespected.

I don't think, however, that this is what's going on here, because there's another party involved: his new girlfriend. Now, again, there's nothing inherently wrong about that IF she knows, and IF she's okay with it. But somehow I doubt this is the case.

And that's where the moral issue comes in. It isn't the sex, it's the deception. I wouldn't get directly involved in telling her, though.

That is almost guaranteed to go poorly -- for you and for her both, and I don't think it'd do much to make him change. Anything you do will have to be between you and him. So ultimately, it's up to you.Is being sexually involved with this guy worth deceiving this girl?

That's a moral question, and I'm not in the business of making moral judgments for other people. But that's what it comes down to.

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