What would you do? My sister in-law is angry with my husband (her brother). Personally, I think he is wrong?

My sister in-law is angry with my husband (her brother). Personally, I think he is wrong. I prefer to stay out of this but my sister in-law has sent two emails to me stating she is angry and hurt.

She says she will talk with me but not her brother. I suspect this will blow over soon, as they are otherwise very close, but should I answer her recent emails? She wants my opinion and I really don't want in the middle.

Asked by Rio24 35 months ago Similar questions: sister in law angry husband brother Personally wrong Lifestyle > Relationships.

Similar questions: sister in law angry husband brother Personally wrong.

I would tell her exactly what you have told us! Tell her you want to stay out of their argument so you won't get caught in the middle. It's not really fair of her to ask you to get involved.It's too much of a tricky situation.

Insist that you are not getting involved, and will not talk with her about their disagreement. My ex son in law used to call me when my daughter and he were separated. He'd be telling me how he was right, and she was wrong, or how he knew he screwed up, but he wanted her back.

I finally just had to say flat out, "This is not my business. She's 24 years old. I have no say in what goes on with you too.

Please don't call me anymore". If you do start getting involved, it is most likely one of them will end up mad at you!.

Tell her Just That You can send her an emai and tell her you love them both. But won't take sides. Tell her you know they love each other and hope for everyone's sake they can work the problem out.No one can fight like Brothers and sisters.

Only family can survive those rounds. If friend were to fight like that. The friendship would be over.

Only the love for your family can pull you through these things...

Just be honest and stick to your desire not to take sides. I commend you on your desire not to get into the middle of the family sqabble, even if you do think your husband is wrong. Unless it's something legal or really earth shattering, I think I'd respond to the emails by saying that you are really sorry that they are having this rift right now.... But you can't choose sides between your husband and anybody else.

You've always gotta be on your spouses side. LOL, if it were me I'd kind of joke it off as some sort of wedding vow requirement or something to lighten the mood while conveying the message that you aren't going to badmouth your spouse to/ with her. They've been fighting since the younger one was born and they'll likely get over it soon enough and I wouldn't mind telling them that..

No, don't get in the middle of this. Tell her that you will tell your husband that she is hurt and angry and see if the two of you can't talk and hash it out. That you don't want to take sides, it's between her and her brother.

And then, do just that. Keep out of it.

It depends on what she is asking you to do. If she wants you to carry a message to him, you could do that without getting involved in the action. If she wants you to get involved and try to reason, nag, pressure, coerce him to her side of the issue, you'd be wise to stay out of it.

Odds are if they are close, they will eventually manage to work the problem out without your involvement. From your answer, you seem to have grapsed the essential truth of a close brother and sister: We know one another's faults, virtues, catastrophes, mortifications, triumphs, rivalries, desires, and how long we can each hang by our hands to a bar. We have been banded together under pack codes and tribal laws.

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