WHY are new comming LGBT so afraid to come otu of the closet? Also and why does the public judge us?

It's a big risk to disclose information like that about yourself to others, so its natural to experience some feelings of anxiety. And its also not like we are raised with "coming out" as a universal experience, so they don't cover it in sex ed during high school. The public judges us because many of them have read a certain book and they have misinterpreted the book to mean that as long as they sleep with members of the opposite sex, they have a right to say how others live.

I agree with poonamhubshere, as a gay man it was very difficult for me to come out, however once I did I was fine, but many people trying to comeout also have issues with Denial, acceptance of them selves and other peoples opinions and some times they are not sure of themselves. The public will always have issues with us because in certain parts of society they are afraid of change, or have not seen the LGBT culture before as it was closed for years, because of danger and imprisonment. It is not there fault, you understand, it was how things were and therefore they are not used to it.

However slowly we are making progress in bringing total acceptance but it is a very slow process but its getting better thats the main thing.

I'm gonna give you my take on this very valid question. People are coming out younger and younger. So they are more unsure of themselves.

That is reason number one. Reason number two is that the public is still this vague and anonymous thing that basically puts homosexuality at the margins in not out side the borders of acceptability. Then of course there is this, that for every one who comes out there is a unique story.As an Indian lesbian believe me my coming out was a cake walk.

Many people assume that its harder in Asian communities. I say its the unique characteristics of the story. I came out to my friends before my family.

The fifth thing I'd like to say (I hope you are keeping count) is what I told my sister when she worried over my life being hard and society "I don't need acceptance from society as much as I need it from you."Saying all this I'll conclude by saying it really is getting much better since the card catalogue days in my high school library looking up sexual deviance.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.