You have just met a (what you conceive to be) wonderful man. After a few dates and much time spent together, he tells you about a grim past?

This is a tough situation but I would likely stay away from him. He must be scary and I didn't know if I would sympathize him or not so it's best to avoid him and possibly contact the FBI or NBI (here in the Philippines) so he would be investigated or will be secretly put under surveillance.

I would have to do some deep investigating about him and his past. This would include trying to reach his ex -wives to hear their stories. I am sure however, that I would have to not see him any more at least until I got the story as clear as I could.

That would be terribly difficult to decide. On one hand, if I really thought he was the one for me and no charges had actually been filed, how do I even know he is bad? If I just spent a little time with him, and good let my feelings go away, then it would probably be better if I just let him be.

But if I was as old as I am now, with no babies in the future, if I stayed with him, at least I wouldn't have to worry about our kids. :-).

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.