You have just met and exchanged phone numbers with a sweet guy. After a couple of dates with him, you receive a phone call from his?

I would definitely be honest with her, and answer her questions. I would, however, without provocation, at the very least, share these details: 1. He intentionally hid that he was married 2.

Any behavior he committed that signified he was looking for a sexual relationship 3. Any hint he may have given that he was dating or had had another affair I would not in any way let him shrug it off as an accident, a misunderstanding, etc. I would not do this as revenge to him, but because I consider cheating a potentially violent act against your partner, since the rate of sexually transmitted diseases is so high. I believe she has the right to know that her husband is potentially exposing her to serious or even lethal illnesses.

If he can talk it away as being a chummy interaction with someone, rather than an attempt to sleep around, then I am potentially hurting her by allowing him to hide his behavior. I would be sure I wasn't the only one. I would also tell her that I was really sorry, it was nothing I had done intentionally, and offer her some emotional support, if she was receptive.

I have actually been "the other woman" before--completely by ACCIDENT--and I had to work hard to not just say "well, isn't your husband a lying sack of scum?!" But it wasn't my place to say that. I did feel that it was possible for us to sort of commiserate together, though, and I hope I helped her feel better.

I think woman have a great ability to reach out to each other, and that's a good time to offer someone a kind word.At the very least, you can tell her she didn't deserve that. Anyone has the right to be broken up with first, not cheated on.

Being male, I would recommend that you simply apologize, say that you didn't know he was married and hang up. You really don't have anything to gain beyond that point, and why play more of a role in their relationship than you have to by volunteering extra information? However, if you two consider yourself to be on the same "team", perhaps you'd find it necessary to go into more detail.

If they get divorced later on, you may even develop a good friendship. You never know!

I'd tell her everything, and tell her you didn''t know he was married. She needs to know he was buying you dinner with the mortgage payment. Your sweet guy just turned Bitter!

I would apologize, tell her I didn't know he was married and that he never hinted he was married, and hung up. I would not share the details of my encounter with him. First, because I don't share my personal life with just anyone, especially someone I just know.

I don't think women and girls are that loose mouthed. Women and girls I know usually only shares personal details of their lived with someone they know. Second, logically, the wives are usually furious with their husbands’ dates, no matter if the girls or women don’t know the men are married.

Why would I provoke them to get more angry with me? Jealous women can be vicious and I definitely don’t want to make them take their anger out on me. I would be as courteous as possible and explained the situation to show them I’m not at fault.

I would not “gloat” by sharing the details of my encounter with them.

I'd tell her I didn't know he was married, I'd apologize, but I would NOT go into detail about our dates! Way to rub salt in the wound. She already knows her husband is cheating; I highly doubt she wants a play-by-play.

Whether she accepts the apology is up to her, and I wouldn't blame her if she didn't. But I'd try to extricate myself from the situation as quickly as I can. If I didn't know he was married, I'm not the one most at fault here.

He is. And that's something they can deal with themselves.

I would appologize and tell her that I didn't know that he was married, then if she asked me any questions I would be openly honest with her. If she didn't question you for details then she didn't want to know....and I would track down the JERK and B! TCH slap him.....lol.

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