A husband donate a kidney to his wife but having 2 affair?

Try counseling before throwing in the towel. You're a stay-at-home parent so unless you've got a really great marketable job skill, divorce is not gong to make a you a happier person in life (as you work hard and struggle to make ends meet, even with child support...assuming you'd get at least joint custody of the kids). The financial issues are surely part of what is bringing you down.

You two need to be independent of anyones parents (you're adults with kids...nobody's parents should still be helping support you two). Get a skill, get a job, and improve your family's standard of living. That'll be a great start.

Living hand to mouth and relying on others for a place to stay, is not the recipe for a successful marriage.

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