How can I not become paranoid and why is my partner lying? sure he is having an affair?

When you have time read the following 2 hubs. hubpages.com/hub/whatifheischeating hubpages.com/hub/Is-it-Possible-To-Love-Som You are not paranoid! You are just afraid to start over!

Clearly you know you are not getting back the kind of love you want in a relationship, and yet you mention nothing about walking out. Instead you state you have thoughts of "killing "yourself"! From what you have written he doesn't sound like someone who is worth dying for!(You do have other options)You need to start working on "Loving Yourself" first and URL3 may help for you to find a therapist, read some books, attend some workshops...or do whatever it takes to reclaim Your Self Esteem.

Afterwards you need to remind yourself that there are over 6 Billion people on this planet and odds are in your favor that there is more than one who will love and appreciate you. You're too close to the forest to see the trees! Put things in their proper perspective.(Imagine you had a daughter in the same type of relationship.

What advice would you give her? )When we see things in black and white we gain insight. When we see things in gray it causes us to delay.

It's time for you to move on. Don't waste any more years!"The world may not owe you anything, but YOU owe yourself the world! " "When we change, our circumstances change.

First off, why the heck would you think about suicide, that's rediculous. Secondly, if you don't trust him , then let him go. Life is too short to spend it with someone you don't trust.

First of all suicide isn't the answer no man is worth taking your life over when there are so many more fish in the sea. Your not paranoid at all and in my eyes I believe he is cheating. You deserve so much better than this, you want a man to treasure you and love you and not one that sneaks URL1 may seem like the end of the world and yes it hurts like hell to have to move on but you need to stay strong and not take crap like this from a man.

Kick his butt to the curve.. Do me a favor don't take your life over him he is a jerk for bringing your selfesteem that low to make you have suicidal thoughts. You can do some much better, trust me on this one.. Remember when one door closes another opens...

Look, there are probably ten guys out there who wish that you were theirs, so leave this guy, start over; no big deal I've done it a few times, it gets better.

Dear Emerald2000,First, I would plea to you to find some counseling as we all need a cheerleader in our corner from time to time and we certainly need someone to help us walk out the answers and choices in front of us. If you are certain he is cheating, well, even forgiveness can get you past that. But if you are so codependent on him that you would consider suicide, you truly have not experienced the unconditional love that Christ has for you!

You must love yourself before anyone else can love you. A dear friend told me once when I was in a hell on earth crisis that Things get better when we get better.... I will be praying for you and do not try to fix this on your own or fix him. Leave the fixing to God and do not own your parnters shortcomings... it will only cheat you literally!

Blessings to you:).

If you're so sure that he is having an affair then you should leave him. Of course he will deny, will not admit to your face that he's having an affair, and this lack of respect shows that he has no noble sentiments for you. Show him you have self esteem and doesn't need to undergo this kind of humiliation.

Life may have a surprise for you!

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.