Because you haven't let go of all the hurt and disappointment in your subconscious. Emotional healing can take years sometimes. Try to forgive him and let go if you can.
You'll feel much better I promise you.
I've been divorced for over 10 years, and my ex still pops up in my dreams sometimes. I'm definitely over him. The way dreams work are unknown to us.
I watched a PBS show on Netflix the other day. It reported that current dream studies show our dreams are a way of problem solving. Maybe you are dreaming about how to solve the problem of infidelity.
Or maybe dougie is right ... maybe you are trying to figure out how to forgive. Good luck and pleasant dreams.
Dougie is right. You have suffered emotional trauma. It is a sort of post traumatic stress.
You have been emotionally scared. The best remedy is to let it out, write about your feelings, talk it out, get therapy. It can take time to heal but you must express those feelings.
Jexebellion 13 months ago.
Just because he was a lying, cheating scum, doesn't mean you can just stop liking him. There must have been something that attracted you to him. And your subconscious mind is probably still trying to work it out.
In some way trying to heal the wound it caused. Just be assured that it's normal to have dreams like this. And hopefully, you will do better in your next relationship.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.