My boyfriend lives with me, I pay all the bills?

My boyfriend lives with me, I pay all the bills, he has a few credit cards that we have enjoyed joint benifits, now he wants me to pay off the credit card and re-imburse him for 185.00 he spent on a vet bill, plus a 1000 dollars he gave me towards the mortgage. Mind you, I cook, clean, pay ALL the bills and his car including insurance. O yes, and I paid his tuition 1900.00 for a semester in school.

He now has a job and refuses to pay rent. He says he rather move in with one of his friends. Last night I went out with a girlfriend for dinner and she forgot her wallet (she has never done this in 20 years I know her), my boyfriend called to chastise me about spending 40.00 for dinner simply because I didn't tell me I was going to spend the money.

This is the same guy who refuses to pay half the bills. Asked by msdana 26 months ago Similar questions: boyfriend lives pay bills Lifestyle > Relationships.

Similar questions: boyfriend lives pay bills.

Wait a second.... Most banks have needed bailouts this year - you are no exception. The answer to your boyfriend is No - you may risk the relationship but what are you doing otherwise? And he lives with you?

You are going to have to work on the tough love route with him. I don't think it is going to be easy to end this relationship - these are the kind that never leave. I have a sense he thinks you feel obligated or guilty - and he plays on that.No way - over, done!

Get yourself some support in taking this action - it won't be easy and he will have a tantrum too. He is also the type who might become abusive so be prepared (sorry to say, but that degree of taking and control are pretty typical). Borrowing money for dinner for your friend - some would say it is some kind of karma about giving money to others - but I think it is coincidence - hope you got it back.

Courage - you are not in the wrong.

And he's making noises that he'd rather move in with with a friend. Well, let him. Ultimatum time.

Pay up what he owes you, and split expenses 50/50 or you can't afford him. He will have to pay half of everything when he lives with a friend, and that guy isn't going to cook meals or pick up after him. He sounds irresponsible, looking for a parent, or looking for an excuse to get out of the arrangement with you.

Let him go; you will be happier and have a lot more money..

Kick him out like a football, honey! He sounds like a user and loser. Partnership is just that, and if he is not prepared to go 50/50, the hell with him.

He has some nerve telling you how to spend YOUR money. If he has a job but is refusing to do the right thing and pay his share, then LET him move in with his friend and see how long they will put up with him sitting on his butt and not paying rent. Sorry to be so brutal, but even if you were married to him, he would have no right to act the way he is.

If you actually think you have hope of saving this relationship, thn think about YORU future, kinds, retirement, a decent life. Then you sit down with a budget worksheet, like the one at: financialplan.about.com/cs/budgeting/l/b... (Do one for yourself anyway, just in case) and show him the real cost of all he has taken for granted. Then it gets split down the middle 50/50.

Also start paying off as much credit card debt that you might have in your own name as possible. Then work on the chore list. If he is not willing to to meet you half way there either, you are better off with a roomie/cooperative friends than a guy who will just be a millstone around your neck.

Good luck! .

Thank your lucky stars you didn't marry him What a loser and a user he turned out to be...the sooner you have him move out, the better. I wouldn't give him one single dime...even if you did a 'balance sheet' he'd be in the negative. Just don't 'beat yourself up' over it...you gave it your best shot...gave way more to the relationship than 50%...and he just plain took advantage of your trusting nature.

Hopefully he's packing while you're at work...but not taking your stuff, too. My 40ish daughter ran into a 'user', too. Once she finally broke up him, and took a little breather from dating, she met a fantastic guy...they're more like 'equal partners' in the relationship He was divorced from a 'user' too, so they can really appreciate each other's giving nature.

It's always hard to break up...you might even miss him for a while...but you really deserve better. A man who loves YOU for who you are, not what he can get out of you.It's time to move on...the more time you waste on this loser, the longer it will take to find a 'real' man... we always learn from our mistakes...it makes us stronger and smarter.

This is not a good relationship for you; you should abandon this loser and get someone who actually cares for you, isn't so lazy or controlling and wants a relationship to be a partnership. On the other hand, his behavior is considered perfectly acceptable from the woman in a relationship. Curious the double standard.

But I digress. You don't have a real relationship, just a sponge with a penis. You deserve someone better.

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My boyfriend lives with me, I pay all the bills, he has a few credit cards that we have enjoyed joint benifits, now he wants me to pay off the credit card and re-imburse him for 185.00 he spent on a vet bill, plus a 1000 dollars he gave me towards the mortgage. Mind you, I cook, clean, pay ALL the bills and his car including insurance. O yes, and I paid his tuition 1900.00 for a semester in school.

He now has a job and refuses to pay rent. He says he rather move in with one of his friends. Last night I went out with a girlfriend for dinner and she forgot her wallet (she has never done this in 20 years I know her), my boyfriend called to chastise me about spending 40.00 for dinner simply because I didn't tell me I was going to spend the money.

This is the same guy who refuses to pay half the bills. Asked by msdana 27 months ago Similar questions: boyfriend lives pay bills Lifestyle > Relationships.

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