My husband only shows affection for the baby-to-be?

Hi I can TOTALLY RELATE to you situation! I had a baby 3 weeks ago today:) I love my hubbie more than anything in the world! That hasnt changed... But us new Mom's have.

I can speek for myself when I say I still like affection, but Im too exhausted to show it... She ust had a baby and there is a lot of adusting to do... Also My hubbie loves my new body, but I dont! He also kisses me and I do the same thing as your g.f. I basically run away :) I don't want him touching my body quite yet!

I know he doesn't mind the new-temperary-fat body... but Im sure your girlfriend is thinking the same thing.. 1. I don't feel comfy getting intamate looking the way I do either because we don't want you to see us like that or because of our mental self immage and confidence 2. Im too tired to even consider being intamate 3.

Im not in "the mood!" So what can you do? You can tell her shes beautifull, and talk about how you RESPECT her soo much becuase she had this little baby out of her belly.

Rub her belly and say WOW.. he was in there... It lets us know that you realize that our bodies are different for a reason. Keep showing her more and more affection... don't expect her to want to be intensaly intamate for a while.. I miss intamacy, but as a new Mommy our bodies arent up for it yet... Also you can offer her a massage If she refuses then you know she is uncomfortable with her post partum body -Which by the way will never be the same- Also our GF deserves some time out of the house... She mos likely has been keeping it home because of the new born... so if she is going out alot tell her you want to go with her. Make a family date, even if it's going to the mall.

Just show her support maybe she is just stressed out because having a new baby is hard on any women. First off I think you should find a babysitter and take her out have a nice dinner make her dinner a movie even candle light dinner and give her a nice back rub by candle light let her know how you feel and make sure she understand that you love her and your family and want to always be with her and only her. If she loves you back she will understand and see where your coming from.

Then only will she change because she want read your mind so you will have to tell her and show her how you feel ok. GOOD LUCK and if you can let me know how everything turns out. [email protected].

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