My parents asked me not to shower with my fiancee while my brother is staying with us?

I'm surprised you're taking it so well - if this was me,I would have turned into Mama Bear and told him that actually,I don't give a tiny rat's *** about his little girlfriend and that HIS KIDS are his first priority! Actually,my dad did try pulling this c**p on my mum. Didn't do it again... Your former partner needs to grow a pair and tell his fiancee that she has NO right to be telling him when he can and can't see his children.

He has as much responsibility as you for looking after the girls. Quite frankly,he should be looking at this relationship - it is quite clear that his girlfriend has a problem with your kids and as a mother and father neither of you should be taking this attitude. If she doesn't like it,SHE should get out of the house for a week.

I make no apology here because she knew he had kids when she started the relationship with him. If she didn't want to play Mummy at weekends then she should have ended it before it even got past steady dating. Honestly,her behaviour is a huge red flag and it is one you should bring up with your daughters father It's good that you won't just leave the girls with anyone.

If this cannot be resolved,then you will have no choice but to cancel - which would be a shame - and maybe look at changing your ex's access arrangements,drop your flexibility for a start. If he can't work with you to create a stable home life for his daughters then you will have to do it for him.

No it's not the trip you and your boyfriend envisioned, but if he really cares about you, then he better learn that you come as a package deal. I also would not be flexible with his days anymore unless it would be detrimental to your girls. You can not force your ex to anything more than he is....which right now is not too good of a man or father.At least you now know who runs that household and it isn't your ex.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.