What he said was rude. Most guys don't have a clue on how to talk to females. There are many ways that statement should have been said without hurt feelings.
Remember, what is good for the goose is good for the gander. Now that he has played the card, turn it on him and state you feel the same way. Then start exercising together.
I would actually turn if my husband had said such a thing and say: "you need to listen to YOUR OWN advice and be sure you FOLLOW healthy guidelines for weight AS WELL - because baby, this is a TWO WAY street in this life...". How many of us women have seen the over lapping GUTS of many a guy 30 and over? PLENTY OF US.
So, what's good for the "goose" my dear, is simply, good for the "gander" hm?! Grace.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.