Why is losing virginity such a big deal?

It kind of seems like a way to make women suffer more, honestly. You can't just worry it's going to hurt the first time, you have to worry about being called a slut, etc. if you don't do it under society's rules. A bit like beauty products, seriously?

I have to hurt more to look 'pretty'? Tweezing, poking, shaving this and that....really. And then there's childbirth... ho boy.

I always wonder why losing virginity is such a big deal, yeah just like you! The thing is that no matter what I say, I explain or analyze, people who value virginity simply don't agree! It is most of the time because of 2 things: 1 tradition and old stuff, 2 boys' reaction 1) since it's easy to know if a girl is still virgin or not when she gets married, people become strict about this matter.

They start to talk about whether this girl or that girl is still virgin and we all know that sex is something personal so when it is discussed in public, it makes the girl who is talked about feel kinda ashamed. I guess trying not to be talked about as a slut makes girls more careful when deciding to lose virginity or not. This happens and naturally it sticks to people's mind.

(If boys could bleed or something like that when they lose their virginity, it would be different) lolz! 2) When boys date, they expect their girls to give them everything, including virginity. But When they choose their wife, some kinda judge whether she's still virgin!

And that is quite stupid! So to make sure they are not disrespected by their husbands, girls keep their virginity that's my opinion! :D.

Simply this is who you are. I mean you feel like find the right person. So just wait for it and find the right girl in the right time.

It's not such a big deal... well wasn't for me. And one more thing: first time's like a memory and is also the best time, then wait.

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