Would you consider it a big deal to post a pic of someone with their ex-gf's arm resting on them on Facebook, even if the new GF may see it?

In my opinion I don't think this should be a problem. I mean, as much as we may want to sometimes...we can't undo everything that happened with exes. Furthermore, marriage is a big deal and the fact that the pictures will be well received by most, especially those who couldn't come and those who were there and want the memories seems to outweigh the fact that one person may be upset.It seems to me that the new gf being upset has something to do with insecurities on her part, but like I said you can't act like what happened didn't.

I don't think you should feel guilty about anything as it does not seem that you were trying to hurt anyone by posting the pictures.

My first impulse is to say no, but it really depends on the photos. Can you describe them?

Personally I would hate it...... But if family wanted to see it I would say leave it up for about 2 weeks and then take it down if a love does not like it. They should explain that their family really wants to see it and that they will take it down in 2 weeks. Or the GF can ask for the love to take it down in 2 weeks after the family had seen the picture.

I really hope this helps. Good luck!

I would have to say it is a really,really big deal! It happenened to me nine years ago. It nearly cost me a divoce from my wife of ten years.It also caused many,many problems between our families and friends.

After nine years,things are just begginning to go back to normal. All We Can Do Is Pray!AMEN.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.