Your friend invites you to their band's first show, but also invites a girl that despises you.. Do you still go to the show?

I would try talking to your friend about it, even if you don't think he'll understand. Sometimes people can be blind to the negative aspects of their friends' behavior, particularly when they aren't the ones personally suffering from it. He may not realize how cruel this girl has been to you.

I wouldn't let her chase you off from what is surely an important night for your friends. Ask if you can bring someone along with you. That way, you'll have someone to talk to during the night, and hopefully the crazy girl will be less likely to bother you.

You should try to remember that this girl's opinions aren't worth getting upset about. She sounds like a pathetic individual who is trying to make herself feel good by putting you down. She probably doesn't feel like she has many redeeming qualities of her own, and may be jealous of the time you spend with your mutual friends.

She may think you've done something you haven't--either to her, or one of your friends--and believes she's somehow justified in attacking you. In that case, you may be able to get your friends to figure out what her problem is, and maybe smooth things out. I wouldn't waste much energy trying to "fix" your relationship with this person, though.

Just work on ignoring/tolerating her when you need to be in the same place at the same time. If you aren't getting flustered by her actions, she'll eventually get frustrated and find someone else to bother. People like this girl thrive on drama.

Don't offer any, and she'll go away. From personal experience, I can tell you that once you realize what a sad, miserable wretch this girl must be to be acting like this, it will be a lot easier for you to be around her. When you see a person as someone to pity, their insults aren't anywhere near as powerful.In fact, you'll just pity her more because of them.

That's what's worked for me in the past. I hope it helps you with your current situation.

If it were me, well, let's face it, if it were me, the girl would run from the building screaming "I give up" with her hands in the air, I mean look at my picture, I scare little kids at football games without even meaning to do so (they hide beinde their mothers). You need someone to hang with you the whole evening, some protection. If you know any bikers or serious looking roid rage weight lifters, or an off duty policeman (not always the best choice as they sometimes won't go far enough).

The first time she starts on you, Mr or Ms protection tells them to shut the F up and leave you alone. "you got that missy? There are a whole lot of people in here for you to mess with, but my friend girlyque is not one of them.

From now on, you mess wiht someone else. " One thing a bully can't stand is a bigger bully. It works, trust me, I've been through it many a time.

Oh, by the way, you pay the cover and beer charges for Mr or Ms Protection and you have a great time without worrying about Ms. Bully.

What did you realy do to this person ,your mutual friend knows ask her. If I know women and I do it will be about talking smack and of course the one you were talking to about her passed iton. Even though she promissed not to.

Any man who raised girls knows this and so do all you gals.

I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.