You must tell her. I can relate somehow to this, except I'm a girl. ^^ Years back, I told my friend that I like him.It didn't became 'us' right away but we remained friends.
As time goes by, he realized that he loves me too, that's like after three-four years? Now we're already 20 months... ^^ What pushed me to tell him that I love him before? I don't want to have regrets in the future.
I'd rather try than be scared and lose him forever. If you told her about your feelings and it happens that she feels the same, congratulations for the two of you... If she doesn't like you back, well it's okay.At least you tried. It's better than never knowing what MIGHT have been, right?
:) Good luck!
Ask her if she'd consider developing a relationship with you that could grow into being more than just friends. If you haven't talked about your feelings before the sudden news might scare her a little bit since you've had them for so long without telling her. Best advice I ever took to heart in a situation like this of my own was this: My ability to love someone does not make them the right person for me to be with.
Not being loved back doesn't make me undeserving of love or unlovable. The strength of my love is a testament to my ability to feel, it does not require the person love me back for me to have strong feelings. My decision to love someone should never require that person love me back in the same way I love them, or my love would be conditional.
Love is a choice that isn't always shared by the same people. Technically you have a relationship with her now and you have unexpressed feelings and desires for her. Telling her WILL change your relationship, as will any new element can.
If you are willing to risk rejection it's worth asking. If rejection does happen, just remember that your ability to feel and have strong feelings is not debatable. All your doing is finding out if this is the right person for you to share them with.
If it isn't the right person you can rest assured you will take your ability to feel with you. Whether or not you choose to share those feelings with another and when is, as always, completely up to you. Even if it doesn't feel that way.
Best of luck with your quest. For what it's worth, I've always preferred knowing the truth rather than living a fantasy. Reality is far cooler when it's shared with another.
If it works out, please let me know! :).
Tell her. If it is meant to be, is meant to be. If it is not meant to be, it will not happen.
The Second Step of Friendship is Love" you both could be mutually exhibiting certain symptoms. Don't hurry in proposing to her, or saying her how you feel. A close friend would be rather better than a turned down love.
Only tell your feelings, if you feel that you might have been the only guy who impressed her. Sometimes a difference may arise between a close friend whom you love so much and a lover for whom you would be ready to give your heart. The best advice is "Follow your Heart" cause others experiences in love may widely vary.
First of all, check is she in a relationship. Otherwise, tell her something like, " I like you very much. In fact I think that I am in Love with you" Check for her response.
Don't wait too much to loss her to some other person. Try to tell her anyway. Best wishes.
Dude just ask her if she likes anybody and if she says yes and won't tell you who then it's you, and if this happens tell her you like someone to and if she blushes then it's definitely you and then tell her how you feel.
Love has no uttermost, as the stars have no number and the sea no rest. Love has no uttermost, as the stars have no number and the sea no rest. Eleanor Farjeon, Martin Pippin in the Apple Orchard?
(1922), p. For all the ill that is in us comes from fear, and all the good from love. Eleanor Farjeon, Martin Pippin in the Apple Orchard?
(1922), p. Nowhere I would rather be. Like a rock in the sea?
Am I asking too much? Is your love strong enough? "Is Your Love Strong Enough?" by Bryan Ferry (YouTube Video).
I wish I could take what I'm feeling right now and put it in the water system so everybody could drink it and we would all love each other. Jamie Foxx, at the Golden Globes ceremony (2005). The Format, in "Inches and Failing".
Masood, a young lady has fallen in love with me—at least so I judge from her letters. Awkward is it not—awkward and surprising. You would be flattered and twirl your moustache, but I am merely uncomfortable.
I wish she would stop, as she is very nice, and I enjoyed being friends. What an ill constructed world this is! Love is always being given where it is not required.
Forster, Selected Letters: Letter 137, to Syed Ross Masood, 5 December 1914. If you would be loved, love and be lovable. Benjamin Franklin, Poor Richard (1755).
Care and responsibility are constituent elements of love, but without respect for and knowledge of the beloved person, love deteriorates into domination and possessiveness. Erich Fromm, in Man for Himself: An Inquiry into the Psychology of Ethics (1947). Just as love for one individual which excludes the love for others is not love, love for one's country which is not part of one's love for humanity is not love, but idolatrous worship.
Erich Fromm, in The Sane Society (1955), Ch. 3 : The Human Situation, Sect. If a person loves only one other person and is indifferent to the rest of his fellow men, his love is not love but a symbiotic attachment, or an enlarged egotism.
Erich Fromm, in Art of Loving (1956). I want the loved person to grow and unfold for his own sake, and in his own ways, and not for the purpose of serving me. Erich Fromm, in Art of Loving (1956).
I got love, I got so much love, love in my heart, and this feeling I can't let it go. Jonny 'Itch' Fox of The King Blues, in "I Got Love" from Save the World. Get the Girl (2008).
Truth is cosmically total: synergetic.
I cant really gove you an answer,but what I can give you is a way to a solution, that is you have to find the anglde that you relate to or peaks your interest. A good paper is one that people get drawn into because it reaches them ln some way.As for me WW11 to me, I think of the holocaust and the effect it had on the survivors, their families and those who stood by and did nothing until it was too late.